I just downloaded Instagram for Android the other day and wondered how to save pictures on my phone with this tool... apparently you can't, so yes, Facebook and them play in the same court: you don't own your things anymore.
Every picture you take with Instagram is saved on the phone. Take a picture, optionally apply a filter, hit next, but don't hit Upload. Go to the Gallery app and you'll see an Instagram folder with your filtered photo, and a copy of the original photo in the Camera folder.